This is normal teenage behavior. But I cannot stop laughing now!
This forum is becoming depressing - post happy stories about teaching
Posted 22 November 2019 - 11:01
I'm sure it'll be an enjoyable occasion, Aquarelle! Can't wait to read your post-match report. We need more concerts with a 'bring your own picnic' element here, I think.
Posted 01 December 2019 - 11:34
Suggesting to one football mad pupil that she starts a school women's football team (the PE staff are going to kill me!)
Posted 02 December 2019 - 21:04
Well, yes, it was fun. A kindly grandfather picked me up at a pre-arranged point because the school is buried in the Basque country foot hills and hard to find. When we arrived we were joined by the rest of the family – grandmother, mum, seven children of whom I teach four. Father couldn’t come as he has been posted to Mali and left Friday. There were quite a few families I knew and lots of children came to greet me. The Fanfare (French equivalent of a small brass band) began to play some Basque folk tunes. Three of my pupils were in that – a flautist and two boys who do piano with me and trumpet and trombone at a municipal music school. The Fanfare played us into the building which I assume was the school refectory. The family who had invited me to share their picnic settled themselves near the stage – lots of long tables and families and friends grouped together. We stood to sing grace and then tucked in and the school boys served all the adults with a glass of mulled wine. The boys were in uniform – it’s very unusual here. The girls were not – it is a boys only school and the girls were all sisters who are at other schools. They were all typically rather dowdily dressed - longish dresses or skirts, high necklines etc. I think that is in the name of “modesty”. But they seemed lively enough and were obviously enjoying themselves.
The Fanfare played a bit more and then there was no more music until the end of the meal. There were 25 items and my pupils played in 11 of them. The young musicians played mostly in pairs or small groups. There were flutes, clarinets, a guitar, a little ‘cellist, pianists and singers. Some of the parents also took part. The music ranged from medieval to ragtime. The atmosphere was relaxed, the players confidently enjoying themselves. My piano and trumpet duo had a restart and the pianist pulled a face and grinned across at me! The mother and daughter items were beautifully played – very simple but very well done. A pianist whom I have had for – ten or twelve years – can’t remember - and who is now in what will be her last year with me - played “Booty Swing” by Parov Stelar – I had never heard of the piece or the composer but it was a fun piece of jazz which brought the house down. I was so pleased to see her taking to her musical wings and playing something I had not taught her! When they get to that stage you know you have done your job. She also sang the cat duet from – I can’t remember which opera – with a friend and I do not know how they kept straight faces ! A father made a valiant effort at a Chopin waltz on the rather grim Yamaha bottom of the range piano with no pedal! It turned out that the little ‘cellist was his daughter who is friends with my little piano pupil who had accompanied her flautist mother. They asked me to find some music easy enough for the two little girls to play together. (I hope the Party Time Series has a ‘cello version and would be glad of any suggestions - piano part Grade one-ish.)
One of the nicest moments was not musical at all. It was after the concert when I came across the boy who had thrown in the sponge when asked to accompany a clarinettist but had then found an easier piece for them both to play. He is sixteen and was carrying in his arms his little four week old sister. He brought her to show me! This is a family whose father was on the same mission in Mali last week when thirteen French soldiers were killed in a helicopter accident. They went through a very nasty moment, not knowing if they had lost their father until they got the “he is safe” telephone call. He lost eight of his personal friends and companions in arms.
I got home late afternoon . I am having a very, very busy time at the moment and in a way I couldn’t really afford an afternoon out but I am so glad I went. It was great to be at a concert I didn’t have to organise and to see my pupils taking part in something so worthwhile. It seems there will be a repeat performance next year.
Posted 02 December 2019 - 22:15
How lovely! Thank you Aquarelle for the delightful account of your afternoon.
Posted 02 December 2019 - 22:32
Sounds delightful. We should proprose St Cecelia's day concerts to be compulsory in every school here. My boys' primary school used to do a lovely concert in which every single child who played an instrument was given a spot. You only got invited to watch if you had a child in the concert so it felt very special the first time I went. By the time the Boy was there the concerts had been abandoned, as had most music making and nearly all instrumental lessons. But they get slightly better SATs results now so that was obviously a good decision... not. I preferred it in the old days.
Posted 03 December 2019 - 10:49
Thanks for sharing, Aquarelle. I'm often surprised by how much I enjoy most of our local schools' instrumental recitals, at which a couple of my piano students might be playing. It's wonderful to watch all the other young performers, the violinists, guitarists, clarinettists etc and of course other piano students. As you say, it's so relaxing to watch a concert in which you've had minimum input.
Very sad about the helicopter accident, of course.
The famous Cats Duet isn't from an opera, and in fact is now agreed not even to be authentic Rossini but a pastiche by an unknown composer.
Posted 03 December 2019 - 11:34
Thanks for the kind comments. Yes - wouldn't it be great if all schools had a Saint Cecelia's day concert - or similar. Thanks for that info HelenVJ. I didn't know that.
Well, Saint Cecelia done and packed off for another year it's now into Christmas. I've just been informed that not only are we doing the primary school Celebration which we repeat after Christmas at the retirement home but there is also to be a Celebration at church with the college and lycée. We have a new director at the lycéee – sort of super head of the three establishments and he is keen to bring back the tradition of a Celebration at church with all three parts of the educational group involved. Apparently my primary school children are to sing “Douce Nuit” as the closing (and I think only, ) music and I have been asked to be at church tomorrow afternoon to sort details of placings etc. This is going to be interesting. He has also warned me that we might be called upon at Easter. Nothing like looking ahead!