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#20206 mel2

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Posted Yesterday, 13:32

It almost looks as if the organisation is being deliberately discouraging. Did they invite the choir, or did the director offer your services?
I know amateur pianists sometimes play an instrument in these properties but volunteers' standards must vary.
I wonder if the Head of Corporate Whatever has advised them to issue fewer 'giveaways'?
Withdrawing the free guest tickets is understandable but it's unacceptable to make you sing outside (unless you are standing round a charity donations bucket - hadn't thought of that one!)
They should offer tea and cake for sure!

Feeling a bit bolshie as I was today dis-invited from giving a free background music recital at a charity do (no fee, and bring my own keyboard!) because they've had another offer.
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Posted Yesterday, 13:40

It almost looks as if the organisation is being deliberately discouraging. Did they invite the choir, or did the director offer your services?
I know amateur pianists sometimes play an instrument in these properties but volunteers' standards must vary.
I wonder if the Head of Corporate Whatever has advised them to issue fewer 'giveaways'?
Withdrawing the free guest tickets is understandable but it's unacceptable to make you sing outside (unless you are standing round a charity donations bucket - hadn't thought of that one!)
They should offer tea and cake for sure!

Feeling a bit bolshie as I was today dis-invited from giving a free background music recital at a charity do (no fee, and bring my own keyboard!) because they've had another offer.

 

That's very rude of them!

 

I think that was has happened is that our chair agreed, assuming it would be the same deal as last year, and when she found that it wasn't, was too 'polite' to say 'sorry, no'.

 

They asked us back, after we sang twice for them last year, with the free entry. Maybe they think they're doing us some kind of favour, letting us sing at their event!


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Posted Yesterday, 14:02

 

They asked us back, after we sang twice for them last year, with the free entry. Maybe they think they're doing us some kind of favour, letting us sing at their event!

 

 

I can well imagine this is the case.  Some think that 'exposure' is adequate reward for people giving of their services.

 

My new way to waste time is reading a site called 'Choosing Beggars' which shows extracts from instagrams (?) and chatrooms.

You wouldn't believe how many people think they shouldn't have to pay artists and designers because having their worked 'showcased' (by complete nonentities) is sufficient recompense. 

 

Don't be bamboozled!


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Posted Yesterday, 15:09

What about local halls? You are not being insane, I'd be uneasy as well. Talk to her and see if she can suggest alternative options? 


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Posted Yesterday, 17:08

We were already booked to busk on that day, which would have made us a bit of cash and given us exposure in the right place rather than halfway across the county (I hadn't said I'd go because I hate singing outside in the winter...!). I will have to carefully craft an email. I'm sure it won't be the only one! But if I don't, it'll turn out that no one had the guts to object.
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Posted Today, 09:22

I know the feeling Banjogirl. I remember pointing out to my band conductor that the busking gig we had just done involved us all having to park in an expensive town centre car park because there was nowhere else close enough for carrying all our heavy equipment, and that if we had all just donated our parking fees to the band then that would have come to more than we earned by busking. I felt like the socially awkward odd one out/ bean counter! However, he did agree and took the comment on board.


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