QUOTE(immy @ Aug 1 2008, 12:30 PM)

I have been getting a little irritated, and worried, by some of these threads too. On reflection though I think the problem is that these threads are conversations between some quite young people and a number of perhaps somewhat older people. Perhaps I should stick to the Adult Learner Forum to get away from this grade-chasing business. It is not the young people's fault to be overkeen and wanting to rush things, though I would say unwise.
I think maybe the reason that so many young people rush is the fact that there is a limited amount of time before going off to university, whereas for most adult learners, there's an indefinite stretch of time to learn ahead of them. Some people will need to pass particular grades to get onto a particular course, but most will just be facing having to think seriously about what musical things to keep on etc. For example, while I feel I have reached a level on piano where I could happily potter along on piano without lessons, without going backwards and developing dreadful technique, I couldn't really say the same of recorder, so hopefully I'll be able to carry on lessons through uni

The biggest dilemma I have at the moment though is that I have recently aquired a violin, so the question is whether i could reach any kind of level in a year to make it worthwhile learning it, and if not whether I would have time/money to carry on properly learning it through uni.
In my case, I'm not particularly bothered about what grade I am, unless at some point in the near future I discover that I could get into X university music group if I have grade X recorder. But all grades are is a measure of progress, and if you work hard, you progress quickly, hence getting to grades quickly if you take the exams. All you need to do to take an exam is learn three pieces and some scales. Surely all you do while not preparing for exams is develop technically and learn lots of pieces - why can't three of these be exam pieces and scales form part of the technical work?
I'm sorry to ramble, but I think its a bit too easy to judge young people for rushing too much, when older people (unless they are terminally ill and have been told you have X weeks/months/years left) have 'forever' to learn while we are, in a way, working to a deadline.
*runs for cover*