I think this is more of a life skills/teamwork question than one about playing, but never mind...
At my school, everyone who's above a certain level on their instrument is put into a trio or quartet which rehearses once a week with one of the instrumental teachers. Next Monday we are supposed to be playing in a concert and I get the impression it's not really negotiable: despite the fact we are nowhere near ready, we just have to BE ready! The main reason we aren't ready is that the 2nd violin has only come to four rehearsals since September!
Hence we've organised some extra rehearsals, which have to be without the teacher as she only comes in one day a week. There was meant to be one last Friday, but neither of the others came so that didn't happen! Assuming they come to the next rehearsal on Monday, I'm kind of in charge as I play 1st violin. Obviously I know how the teacher would lead the rehearsal, but I am not much more advanced musically than the other two, and we're all the same age, so if I did exactly the same I would seem bossy/stuck up/rude. On the other hand, obviously someone has to take charge or nothing's going to happen, and logically that someone's going to be me!
So what do people do in this sort of situation? we really need to make a vast improvement or the concert is going to be a complete embarrassment!
Thanks in advance, and sorry if this is a bit of a rant!
Rosie.
